Lifting Up Dad From Our Knees.....: Happy Thanksgiving

Thursday, November 22, 2007

Happy Thanksgiving

I don't know if anyone out there still checks this, but if you do, the Maley family wants to wish you a blessed and thankful Thanksgiving. We are so aware of the many blessings we have been given this hard and eventful 2007. What a year. You have prayed us thru it and walked with us. Thank you and may your day be filled with joy and bountiful blessings.

Sue and family

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Anonymous said...: Hi Sue,
I check it every once in awhile
just to make sure there's nothing
there :)
We are so very thankful for your gift
to us this past year in the form
of a seat on the side lines of
your tremendous journey with our
precious Lord.
Love you
Helen and Steve; November 25, 2007 at 9:13 PM
Anonymous said...: We still check it, and we're thankful for you!! Many blessings to you and your family.

Love, the Hansen's -- Dale, Karen, Matt, and Taylor; November 25, 2007 at 11:00 PM
KRoe said...: Hi Sue and all!

Thanks for the holiday wishes. Sure was good to see Jim a while back; what a miracle! Still praying for you as you transition to a "new" Jim!

Kevin Roe; November 26, 2007 at 1:47 PM
Anonymous said...: Dear Helen, Steve, Kevin and the Hansen's,

Thanks so much for your loyal blogging. It is still encouraging to hear from you all.

The days are filled with good things and challanges. Our Thanksgiving was great. We all went to Jason and Netties. There were 26 of us in our immediate family. Wow! We took that multiply and divide thing seriously.

Love to all
Sue; November 26, 2007 at 6:51 PM
Anonymous said...: Yes we still check this to get an update on you and your family being so far away it helps to keep updated. Sue when you have time e mail me at pammiller@thevillages.net we wish you a wonderful Christmas and family time. PETE & PAM; December 1, 2007 at 6:46 PM
Linda said...: Sue and family, I just wanted to tell you how excited I am to hear how well Jim did and is doing. You all were the greatest and most supportive family. I hope Jim realizes how lucky he is. You never gave up...no matter what the Doctors told you..I love it when I get to follow the progress of someone I took care of. Sorry I didn't respond earlier, but I did keep up with his progress and smiled alot. Linda (one of his ICU nurses); January 22, 2008 at 9:07 PM

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The story as we know it...

On Friday morning (Jan. 19th) around 10:50am, i recieved a call from my brother Joe telling me that he needed me at the house. I asked him what for and he told me that dad had hurt himself somehow...he had a black eye, his nose was bleeding and was "a little beat up". I immediatly got into my car and started heading that way. I called Joe back and asked him for more details and he told me that he was having a hard time getting dad up. I told him to call the EMS and he said that he thought Jason had already done that and he was on his way. When i pulled up, i saw the EMS was already there. I walked in and i saw Jason, Anna, Joe and several EMS people along with dad sitting on a gurney. They imediately took dad out in the EMS...not knowing what was wrong...just that something really wasnt right. We followed the EMS to parkview ER and had to go wait. Mom met us there as she flew across town to get there. We had to wait a long time (it seemed like days!) before we were told what was going on. The chaplain kept coming out to "brief"us...but thats all it was, a "brief". Finally, the ER doctor called the family together and told us the news...dad has a broken neck and he is bleeding in and on his brain on both sides....this is very serious. "Its a bad deal" the ER doc kept on saying, but we had to wait until the surgeon would come in and take a look at the CT scan before we could find out for certian what was wrong. Dr. Young finally came in and said that he had looked at dad and his scan. Dr. Young was very "matter of fact" with us which was good. We needed that! He told us very similar things to what the ER doctor told us. He said that dad had broke his neck, C2 to be exact. He also said that he was bleeding in several areas in his brain. He needed brain surgury immediatly. On a scale of one to ten...with ten being the worst...dad was a "plus 10". Dad went into surgury and was there for 3.5 hours or so...he came out of surgury fine but we found out the damage was worse than they had thought. They had to remove some of the damaged area and he would be on life support. We were told that the next 3-10 days are life and death...or very critical. What we think what happend is something as follows: Dad was sleeping down in the basement which is a normal thing. Between 8:30am and 10:30am, he tried going upstairs. This info is a little sketchy because we werent there, but based on some of the info that we have seen, we think that he tripped on the stair going up and fell...hitting his right eye on the stereo and then hitting face first on the ground. This created the damage that we are aware of. We spoke with the cardiologist today and found out that dad has also had a heart attack with in the last eight days, but they have not figured out exactly when. There is a thought that this might have caused the fall be we are uncertain. Dad is in stable but "second to second" condition. If and when dad comes out of the "coma" state, there will likely be many months of therapy that needs to be done, plus until the brain issues are resolved, they can not even think about looking at his broken neck. To sum it all up...dad is in very bad condition. We thank you all for all of your prayers and support and all of the food and gifts. Your love for my dad and our family is amazing and we are extremely grateful. We will continue to update you as we know more. Please continue to pray!! Pray for dad (jim) for healing. Pray for mom (sue) that she can continue to be strong. We do know that we most likely havent seen the worst yet. This is when we need your prayers the most. Please feel free to enter your thoughts on this blogspot as we will update you as we know more. We are very thankful for the love you all have shown.

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